How to Get Someone Back

Tap to Read ➤ Neha Joshi

Break ups are never easy, especially if they happen against your will. Here are a few tips to help you get back with your loved one.

All those fights and all that emotional torture left you both without each other. As time passed by and the fights let down their veil, you realized what you have lost and how lonely you are now. Once you slept over all that anger and fury, you realized what you have woken up to―an empty heart, a lonely life, and some mistakes to make better.

With all your heart, you try to tell yourself how you were right and the other person was wrong ... all this to your own disappointment. You know what you have let go and how badly you want it back. Finally, there is acceptance and now, hopefully, an effort.

5 Amazing Tips

Apologize

The first step to improve things between the two of you is to accept your mistakes and apologize. Don't just say sorry. Take efforts to make it look and sound like a proper apology, from the heart.

Apologize for every single mistake of yours. Do so genuinely and tell him how miserable you are without him; how the guilt of your mistakes is killing you. If it doesn't work the first time, apologize as many times as needed, till his heart goes out for you.

Speak the Unspoken

Sometimes, there are a lot of things that remain unsaid between two people. This leaves a lot of place for misunderstandings and assumptions. Speak out whatever is in your heart and convey hidden feelings to the best of your capability.

If he has stopped talking to you, write him a letter and tell him how those unsaid words created undue problems.

Forgive

If you want to get him back after he has cheated on you, the first step is to forgive him. Every human makes mistakes, and now if you really miss him, give him another chance, provided he doesn't repeat the same mistakes again.

Don't Give Up!

If he is just not ready to hear your apology and has lost complete faith in the relationship, don't give up. Stay at it and do whatever is necessary to gain his trust and faith again. Keep on asking for a patch up and take efforts to improve things this time around.

If you'll broke up due to specific issues, work on them and try to show the other person how hard you're trying to make changes for the better.

Talk it Out

This is one of the best ways to get someone back. Tell him what you think went wrong in the relationship according to you. Together, think if you can make this relation happen again, if there can be another beginning.

Think of the ways that might just revive the love that was lost. Take both perspectives into consideration and move on to make a better tomorrow.

Say sorry, beg for forgiveness, and do whatever it takes to make yourself happy again. Remember, fights have their own place in a relationship and so do happy moments. It's what we want to live with.